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Dates released on November 28, 2024.
we have a dream that home
is the happiest place on earth
GOOD FOR YOUR TRANSFORMATION
an invitation to SYNCHRONIZE THE sweet life.
C.A.S.A sweet C.A.S.A
I have a deep concern with the current narrative in the personal growth industry, and that’s why I’ve chosen to use CASA (home) as a metaphor for this practice. CASA represents four modalities: Constellating (Family Constellations), Actualizing (Creative Intelligence), Synchronizing (The Elements of Choreography), and Attuning (Third Generation Coaching). As an Italian-Australian, this metaphor feels particularly fitting.
But CASA is more than just a name. It symbolizes the entanglements we have with the word itself, what it represents, and how it has been woven through generations. CASA is about love, family, safety—and the times we don’t feel safe at all. It’s about money, purpose, and, most importantly, whether we perceive it as something internal or external. The knowledge of having a CASA and what it stands for can either inflame the nervous system or calm it.
Beyond these layers, CASA is a tribute to my great-grandfather, who came to Australia in 1939. He helped other Italians migrate, offering them work and a roof over their heads until they could stand on their own.
This is my way of honoring him and all of my ancestors, acknowledging the legacy they’ve left behind, and creating something that reflects the complex, multifaceted nature of transformation.
All you have to do is descide is you want FREEDOM, WISDOM, GROOVE or PLENTY.
— Melissa Stefano
WHAT DO WE DO
we cultivate
REAL INTIMACY
transformational methodologies for real intimacy.
There is something invisible we are missing in our quest for connection.
One hundred years of research by the best of the best on happiness, trauma (and healing trauma), connection, connectivity, loneliness, belonging, vulnerability, purpose, personal growth and leadership.
Millions of courses, therapies, workshops, trainings and modalities for growth and ‘transformation.’
What’s missing?
Cultivating a rhythm. Rhythm (aka Synchronizing) is the bridge, the space between what we have and what we want.
synchronizing the space between
- science and intuition
- intimacy and real intimacy
- growth and transformation
- existing and coming back to life
how we do it
Synchronizing
We can't tell you 'how we do it.' Not because we don't know but because we respect your path by not offering quick fixes, but encouraging you to find your own way.
what we can tell you is it is about cultivating a rhythm of your past, present, purpose and beyond — at the same time.
OUR GOVERNANCE ARE NOT PEOPLE, THEY set the pace
OUR GOVERNANCE ARE PACE-MAKERS
FREEDOM, WISDOM, GROOVE, PLENTY
A methodology that is designed to be
random and out of order
This is not a system, method, or ‘how to’ strategy.
It is a methodology of randomness.
BODY OF WORK
YOUR LIFE'S EXPERIENCES
The effort invested into your learning and ‘growth’ work.
MAKING VISIBLE
WHAT YOU CANNOT SEE
Revealing hidden truth, sometimes contradictory.
CONSTELLATING ACHE
revealing the pattern
Consistent distress or niggling discomfort.
PROTECTION STRATEGY
how you safeguard yourself
Planned measures, vigilance and proactive defense.
CHRONIC WHYNESS
STAGNANT PURPOSE
Motivated by a defining life event, not yet in motion.
UNMET CRAVING
Unfulfilled desire
Lingering, persistent and seeking resolution
PERCEIVED LIMITATION
RESTRICTING TRANSFORMATION
Self-imposed limits, and passd through generations.
WISDOM OF THE DYING
trusted leaders
What the dying have to teach us about living.
SIXTH ELEMENT
REFINING INTUITION
Cultivating perspective through body sensing.
UNIQUE VISION
A CREATIVE PERSPECTIVE
Shaped by originality, insight and many facets.
ANCIENT WISDOM
TIMELESS SYMBOLS & MEANING
Historical significance in communication
METHODOLOGY
INFORMING PRACTICE
A pattern or rhythm sometimes random and out of order.
BEYOND WHY
WITHOUT LIMITS
unlimited resources
REVERSE ECOLOGY
HUMAN ECOSYSTEM
Reversing the human ecosystem to maximise transformation.
INVISIBLE WHY
A WHY YOU CAN'T SEE
A why that you are drawn to that makes no sense.
MODUS OPERANDI
YOUR UNIQUE METHOD
The imprint that only you have
WHAT MAKES CASA UNIQUE?
Synchronizing Discomfort & Safety
Reversing a century of misguided leadership, education, and mentorship—where the emphasis on 'how' has dulled minds and stifled creativity—won't happen overnight. We're not here to repair a broken system, but to transcend the current paradigm entirely.
Reversing a century of misguided leadership, education, and mentorship—where the emphasis on 'how' has dulled minds and stifled creativity—won't happen overnight. We're not here to repair a broken system, but to transcend the current paradigm entirely.
MAKING VISIBLE THE MOMENT OF GACE
if we reveal the hidden dynamics of the past, by integrating the impact on the present, we can enjoy the rhythm of life
our people and their voice
LOVE, TRUTH & ALL THAT JAZZ
IT'S A BOHO THING
making visible the moment of grace
Melissa spent 30 days not knowing if she was going to live or die.
In the first 72 hours she decided how she would live if given the chance.
Sixty-four percent of people question meaning when faced with a defining life event like chronic illness, divorce or the death of a loved one. Only 10% see the moment of grace.
DANCE 'TIL YOU'RE ZEN
A podcast for two left feet dancers, non-dancers, professional dancers, retired dancers, wannabe dancers and accountants.
You don't have to be a dancer to have rhythm.
Join me as I talk to successful weirdos about their Body of (growth) Work and how they Synchronize Transformation.
Synchronizing is the sweet spot that naturally occurs when you are in rhythm with loving, living and transforming.
Even if you feel like you are the main character in a horror, documentary, musical comedy about a ballroom dancing poodle — just add music and Dance ’til You’re Dead.
Welcome to our
C. A .S. A.
Dancing Zen has been home away from home to International Travellers, Medical Professionals, Sharmans, Performers, Masterchefs, Athletes and Transformational Enthusiasts. Her energy is directly a result of the guests and clients who share the space. Each person leaves a bit of themselves and her power is growing stronger every day.
Being in Dancing Zen is like plugging in for the extra energy you need. Comfort, Inspiration, Safety, Efficiency.
It is sustainable and luxurious, minimalist and expressive — at the same time. This is what life is all about.
